I always start a new year with a list. I am one of those who still writes resolutions. I also make a list of places I’d like to visit and activities I’d like to accomplish in the next 12 months. I even do a little mid-year review to evaluate how the first half of the year had gone. You know, just for the fun of it!
Judging by all the Buzzfeed links on my Facebook newsfeed (’31 Home Decor Hacks That Are Borderline Genius’), I may have missed the trend of giving information in itemised lists.
I hesitated for quite a while before posting this do’s and don’ts piece. I didn’t want to limit the very complex world that is etiquette and decorum into a tidy list. My aim was to present a little “rules of thumb” of social conventions. I hope I have achieved it. So, do read on, these are my “you can’t go wrong with…” etiquette tips.
1. Do speak softly in confined spaces. It’s called our indoor voice.
2. Do knock before entering a room. Always. Make it a habit. It’s rude not to.
3. Do chew with your mouth closed. The smacking sound is just off-putting.
4. Do hold open the door for the person immediately behind you. And do say thank you if someone does the same for you.
5. Do let ladies go first. Except when going down the stairs.
1. Don’t talk when your mouth is full. I’d have to agree with your mum on this one.
2. Don’t apply your lipstick at the dinner table. Under no circumstances is it acceptable. Besides, your lipstick will look more immaculate when applied in front of a mirror. I believe it’s better if we have a complete embargo on all public grooming.
3. Don’t answer a call at the dinner table, the theatre or the cinema. Please take it outside.
4. Don’t interrupt people when they are speaking. Let them finish what they have to say.
5. Don’t converse in lifts (elevators), especially with strangers present. It’s a 30 second journey in a metal box suspended in air. There’s no need to make it more uncomfortable than is necessary.
All the best for a wonderful new year,